Today we are going to talk about yoni massage, a kind of massage that is quite unknown. It is a massage technique for women that comes from an oriental esoteric current that has thousands of years old: Tantra.
In this article we will know what Yoni massage is, its benefits and how it should be performed.
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What is the Yoni Massage?
One of the massages that are part of the range of varieties of tantric sex is the yoni massage, which focuses on the female sexual organ. This massage aims to achieve greater relaxation and greater pleasure, as well as the enjoyment of the moment.
By knowing Tantra in India, the concept of sacred sexuality is very inspiring. It is an ancient idea that is lost in Western cultures. Especially highlights the idea of approaching the body of a woman, particularly her vagina, with a sense of adoration.
La vagina is called yoni in Sanskrit and is freely translated into “a sacred space”. In the Tantra philosophy, we approach the vagina from a place of maximum love and respect. Yoni massage is a practice that tries to truly honor a woman, give her selfless pleasure and explore the sacred side of our sexuality.
The yoni massage is, therefore, a tantric practice that helps women to release tensions and enjoy sex beyond orgasm. It is not simply about reaching orgasm. The goal is to feel more and more pleasure in the form of waves of multiple orgasms throughout the massage. In this way, it awakens the woman’s self-consciousness and helps her to find spiritual clarity. Finally, the practice of yoni massage can be carried out in isolation or as part of the previous game to make love.
There are many benefits obtained, physically, mentally and spiritually:
- The Yoni massage allows the woman to slowly explore her body in a more sensual way.
- It can also help women who have difficulty reaching orgasm, or feel unable to achieve multiple orgasms. It allows acquiring greater knowledge, awareness and control over one’s own body.
- Also, it can be very therapeutic for those who have suffered a sexual trauma in their past, because the focus and technique is to give the woman, make her feel loved, appreciated, loved and honored.
- It promotes the release of emotional blocks and has positive effects on self-esteem. Increases sexual awareness and promotes spiritual growth.
- Through relaxation, it helps to eliminate stress and anxiety.
- On a physical level, with this massage can reduce pelvic pain, due to the release of tension in the pelvic muscle that occurs. It also improves lubrication and blood circulation around the vagina.
How to perform the Yoni Massage
1. Prepare the scenario.
As you must do when exploring all new things, start with an open mind, an open heart and without judging yourself or your body. Lie on your back in a comfortable place with a pillow under your hips, knees up and feet on the floor. Have your favorite massage oil on hand, preferably with silky touch and sensual aroma.
2. Connect to one’s breathing.
The work of breathing is a key element in any Tantra practice. One of the most used techniques is to restrict the back of the throat, and concentrate on the sound of whispers that occurs during inhalation and exhalation. Deep, slow and audible breaths should be maintained during the massage.
This connects you with your body and keeps you away from your head, and helps spread the orgasmic energy throughout your body. We do not want the energy alone in your clitoris. This type of deep breathing can help move that energy from the yoni to all parts of your body.
While clitoral stimulation is a great prelude to sexual intercourse, also a body massage or a tantric chest massage is a great warm-up for yoni massage. The goal here is to relax and slowly build excitement.
Start with a little oil in the belly and massage gently there. The belly is an area of a woman’s body that is often overlooked, but it has many nerve endings. Massage the rib cage, between the breasts and the lower abdomen.
Once the body begins to respond, slowly surround the breasts before surrounding the areola; do not touch the nipples yet. Once your body responds more, it begins to stimulate the nipples alternating between the circles and the light pinches, and between the light touches, medium and strong.
In this way we will be able to prepare the body properly to receive the yoni massage.
After the warm-up, we will see what are the main techniques to perform the yoni massage.
Circle the tip of the clitoris with the tip of your finger to activate the excitement, varying from smaller circles to larger circles. Vary the pressure from lighter to more intense.
2. Pushing and pulling.
Push down on the clitoris and make small movements of push and pull, and then slide your finger down the clitoris. Do this also on both sides, keeping in mind that some women are more sensitive in one part of the clitoris than in another.
3. Pulling and rolling.
To pull on the clitoris, gently pull it away from the body by holding it on the sides and pulling from one side to the other. You can also move down and pull the sides of the lips. Keep the different movements from the top of the clitoris to the lips. To roll the clitoris, start by holding it between the thumb and forefinger, as if you were making a small violin movement with your fingers.
4. Small touches.
Using one or more fingers, touch the clitoris in different rhythms, from fast to slow to know what the body responds to.
5. Massage of point G.
To find the G-spot, fold your first two C-shaped fingers and slide them into the vagina. Look for a piece of soft, fluffy skin behind the clitoris. You can massage it by doing a movement here with your curved fingers. It varies between fast and slow movements. You can also tickle the clitoris simultaneously at the tip or exert pressure on the pubic bone.
Make sure to mix all the above and stimulate the clitoris in several ways, while involving the G-spot and nipples.
Prolonging pleasure, how to do it?
The goal is to reach the edge of orgasm again and again. When the body seems ready to explode, decrease or withdraw the stimulus and then rebuild it to create multiple waves of orgasms instead of just one.
During periods of cooling, place your hand on the heart to help keep the body grounded and feeling loving energy. Then, the excitement increases again to the edge of the orgasm, and again it recedes and the speed decreases.
The longer the previous games or the round trips, the more pleasure will be experienced during the yoni massage.